NashSS Posted July 21, 2007 Report Share Posted July 21, 2007 Well I just found out tonight I'm going to be an uncle. I don't believe them 100% but only time will tell but my brothers GF is pregnant so I'll be an uncle if it be so. Thing of it is my brother is 18 and shes 16 so they are young and I'm really hating the idea but I'm not gonna hate the kid for there mistake. I will be a good uncle. The other thing is both of them smoke and neither of them are talking about quiting which is really getting to me especially his GF. I hate the fact that they both smoke and I don't want my nephew smoking like them. Anyway just thought I release some built up frustration. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brobradh77 Posted July 21, 2007 Report Share Posted July 21, 2007 Congrats I guess Hopefuly they will come around my daughter is the main reason I quit smoking. Her OB should ride their ass until they quit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zanis520 Posted July 21, 2007 Report Share Posted July 21, 2007 damn thats a lil crazy. i would definitely talk to both of them and make sure that they are going to quit, ESPECIALLY the GF. i'm an uncle and im only 21, my sister is older though. its such a great feeling man. i spoil the shit outta my nephews and they are only 2 1/2 years and 3 months old. u get to spend all the time with them, but dont have to get woken up at night haha its awsome. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buyfire Posted July 21, 2007 Report Share Posted July 21, 2007 Thing of it is my brother is 18 and shes 16 UMMMMMMM, that would be statutory in my state. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KoreySS Posted July 21, 2007 Report Share Posted July 21, 2007 UMMMMMMM, that would be statutory in my state. -K- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brobradh77 Posted July 21, 2007 Report Share Posted July 21, 2007 UMMMMMMM, that would be statutory in my state. I didn't even think about that..good point someone may be in trouble. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nuzman Posted July 21, 2007 Report Share Posted July 21, 2007 I doubt it, only two year age difference and she's at least 16. That's an exclusion in most statutes, especially if they get married. Kids are never a mistake, timing is just the issue. Good thing you're there to give a little Big Uncle advice. Don't give up on 'em! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Z4pp Posted July 21, 2007 Report Share Posted July 21, 2007 I doubt it, only two year age difference and she's at least 16. That's an exclusion in most statutes, especially if they get married. Kids are never a mistake, timing is just the issue. Good thing you're there to give a little Big Uncle advice. Don't give up on 'em! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fireman31 Posted July 22, 2007 Report Share Posted July 22, 2007 Congrats I think they are starting a little young........... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
04CHASE Posted July 22, 2007 Report Share Posted July 22, 2007 being an uncle is pretty cool , ive been a uncle since i was 8. my sister is a good amount older, my neice just turned 15. she loves the truck , i take her to lunch as often as i can. i have 3 neices now. all of them are growing up so fast its crazy. i dont get to see the other two often though since they live in new mexico. its a cool feeling man . but if she wants to smoke through the prego that her man. i would try and talk to her , not for her sake but for the babies sake. Good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NashSS Posted July 23, 2007 Author Report Share Posted July 23, 2007 well she said if she stops its bad for her blood???????? and in turn would harm the baby. So I dunno all I know is my neice or nephew will not be a smoker! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brobradh77 Posted July 23, 2007 Report Share Posted July 23, 2007 well she said if she stops its bad for her blood???????? and in turn would harm the baby. So I dunno all I know is my neice or nephew will not be a smoker! WTF? I have never heard a doctor tell someone they need to keep smoking to remain healthy. Thats just her immaturity showing up and its sad. She needs to learn that since she spread em at 16 and got preggo its not just about her any more. She has to think about that child first befoe anything else. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kelleyperformance Posted July 23, 2007 Report Share Posted July 23, 2007 yup, hes totally right. by smoking she is poisioning the baby, and it could potentially have birth defects or problems down the road. so just dont let her smoke, its not right at all. is she planning to raise it, cause if she cant even stop smoking to potentially keep her child from harm, adoption might be best Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RidinRimss Posted July 23, 2007 Report Share Posted July 23, 2007 WTF? I have never heard a doctor tell someone they need to keep smoking to remain healthy. Thats just her immaturity showing up and its sad. She needs to learn that since she spread em at 16 and got preggo its not just about her any more. She has to think about that child first befoe anything else. for sure that is totally b.s. and what the hell don't you have to be 18 to buy cigs. who ever is supplyin her just stop or put her on the patch or somethin that would suck if the kid came out all messed up and suffered becasue of her selfishness. but yeah good luck man kids are deffinately a gift Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
desrtrat Posted July 23, 2007 Report Share Posted July 23, 2007 babies having babies.... i wish them the best of luck, there going to need it. i had my only daughter when i was 31, and i thought that was tuff Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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