montanass Posted February 28, 2007 Report Share Posted February 28, 2007 I dunno Steve, thats a close call... However, if you dont think its your daughter, then odds are it isn't. On a side note: she looks alot like you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterp Posted February 28, 2007 Author Report Share Posted February 28, 2007 On a side note: she looks alot like you Yup she's me in a skirt. Last night she told me she was peeved because Foose Design did not have a t-shirt in her size. And she has already called dibs on the SSS when she gets older... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CoolBlueSS Posted February 28, 2007 Report Share Posted February 28, 2007 On a side note: she looks alot like you Yup she's me in a skirt. Last night she told me she was peeved because Foose Design did not have a t-shirt in her size. And she has already called dibs on the SSS when she gets older... That's good. That's just messed up, her pulling stuff like that. I know at one point you were talking about trying to get custody. Anything come of that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterp Posted February 28, 2007 Author Report Share Posted February 28, 2007 That's good. That's just messed up, her pulling stuff like that. I know at one point you were talking about trying to get custody. Anything come of that? Well I wrote a huge long post in reply to this; but deleted it because it all boils down to one this simple fact - it won't be long now before the kids become sick of her shit. My daughter is almost 10, my stepson 12; I've already told them that I know they would be far better off if they lived with me and visted their mother occasionally, no more secrets, much more truth, real happiness. Their mother has already intimidated them against leaving CA, and I know it's only a matter of time before that approach will drive the kids away from her permanently. I took a chance that she would treat the kids differently than she treated me as her husband... the kids are just now realizing that woman's love is one-way. Mr. P. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CoolBlueSS Posted February 28, 2007 Report Share Posted February 28, 2007 That's good. That's just messed up, her pulling stuff like that. I know at one point you were talking about trying to get custody. Anything come of that? Well I wrote a huge long post in reply to this; but deleted it because it all boils down to one this simple fact - it won't be long now before the kids become sick of her shit. My daughter is almost 10, my stepson 12; I've already told them that I know they would be far better off if they lived with me and visted their mother occasionally, no more secrets, much more truth, real happiness. Their mother has already intimidated them against leaving CA, and I know it's only a matter of time before that approach will drive the kids away from her permanently. I took a chance that she would treat the kids differently than she treated me as her husband... the kids are just now realizing that woman's love is one-way. Mr. P. That's the best approach, and it will benefit you and your children in the end. Take it from someone who has been where your kids are now. I was 12 when my parents split. To make a long story short, I didn't have much of a relationship with my dad because of all the things that my mother planted in my head. When I became old enough to see through all the BS, I now have a great relationship with him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterp Posted February 28, 2007 Author Report Share Posted February 28, 2007 That's the best approach, and it will benefit you and your children in the end. Take it from someone who has been where your kids are now. I was 12 when my parents split. To make a long story short, I didn't have much of a relationship with my dad because of all the things that my mother planted in my head. When I became old enough to see through all the BS, I now have a great relationship with him.That's good - my parents divorced at about the same age and the same situation happened (my mother literally told me his heart was posessed by the devil) and I have not had a meaningful relationship with her since; likewise I've had enough of my father's shit hence my efforts lately to exit the family business in a way where he will not have to call me again. So I understand first-hand divorce dynamics. I know as things are at this moment the kids will be fairly happy/successful regardless of what their mother has done, it's the teen years I am worrying about and as they get closer to 13 I am going to start encouraging the fact that they are always welcome here with open arms their whole life, none of that 'when you're 18 my job ends' bs. The kids will gravitate to where they are welcomed and be repulsed by their mother's hostile attitudes, I'm sure of it I'm just hoping it happens before the kids develop serious problems like drug use, or anorexia, or self-worth problems etc. Mr. P. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dannyc_2006_SS Posted March 1, 2007 Report Share Posted March 1, 2007 I tip my hat over for you P. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StealthSS Posted March 1, 2007 Report Share Posted March 1, 2007 (edited) Having been a victim of things like this with my former wife, I came to the conclusion that all ex-wives are crackheads But being with her was worth it because I have an awesome son. Edited March 1, 2007 by StealthSS (see edit history) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lefty Posted March 1, 2007 Report Share Posted March 1, 2007 Now, now...let's not limit that only to ex-wives. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
06redSSrwd Posted March 1, 2007 Report Share Posted March 1, 2007 that's a tough one, i guess i would go by 1st analyzing what her feasible motives would be for doing this.... just my $0.02 ES Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
haynss Posted March 1, 2007 Report Share Posted March 1, 2007 kinda looks like her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
06redSSrwd Posted March 1, 2007 Report Share Posted March 1, 2007 do this, save the pic and next time you see your daughter show it to her. ask "sweety is this you?" she'll definitely tell you the truth she won't know to lie for her mom. kids are very truthful. that might be your only certainty here. just an idea ES Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterp Posted March 1, 2007 Author Report Share Posted March 1, 2007 do this, save the pic and next time you see your daughter show it to her. ask "sweety is this you?" she'll definitely tell you the truthshe won't know to lie for her mom. kids are very truthful. that might be your only certainty here. just an idea ES Yeah, I already asked my daughter and she asked me to keep a secret from her mother then told me that the pic mom sent me wasn't her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vmax2fast Posted March 2, 2007 Report Share Posted March 2, 2007 read the whole thread? I was thinking it was your daughter but the family connection might explain some similarities.... Oh yeah, ALL women are crazy.... some just hide it better than others!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterp Posted March 2, 2007 Author Report Share Posted March 2, 2007 read the whole thread? I was thinking it was your daughter but the family connection might explain some similarities.... Oh yeah, ALL women are crazy.... some just hide it better than others!! There is no family connection - they are total strangers related by marriage. And I'll have you all know that I'm working very hard to raise a young woman that isn't crazy. Not to say it's all in my control... The last thing I need is some future son-in-law who wants to bitch slap me for raising yet another loco female. Mr. P. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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