air force vm Posted July 15, 2007 Report Share Posted July 15, 2007 I got a call this morring from my girlfriend and she informed me that she just got back with her X. When she called me she told me that she just rented this house and was in the process of moving things and and told me that Mike (the X) was helping move there things in the place. She was supposed to come out the San Antonio from Houston this weekend and I was going to pop the question. I guess I get to keep the ring. Not quite sure what to do. We have been dateing for 3 years but I guess when I was in Korea for the year she was with her X for a good part of the time. Just really bumed out and don't know a whole lot of people in San Antonio to talk to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fireman31 Posted July 15, 2007 Report Share Posted July 15, 2007 Sorry man, I know how it feels , I have been cheated on and dumped for the X also, it hurts........ Keep your chin up, go forward from here.........think of it this way, better you found out now, what if you had already popped the question? Just remember, when you need someone to talk to, your fellow SSS.com members have your back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JF-03-SS Posted July 15, 2007 Report Share Posted July 15, 2007 Man that suck! Know it want make you feel any better but everything happens for a reason. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
air force vm Posted July 15, 2007 Author Report Share Posted July 15, 2007 Thanks guys. I know that SSS guys always have your back. I think that I'm going to get some drinks and go to bed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SS Silv Posted July 15, 2007 Report Share Posted July 15, 2007 Sorry to hear about the bad news. I know things probably feel like they will never get better, but everything will eventually fall into place. Just keep a positive outlook and use healthy coping skills. God had other plans for the two of you, and people who cheat such as your g/f diserve NO respect. Take care buddy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2006_superado Posted July 15, 2007 Report Share Posted July 15, 2007 Sorry man, I know how it feels , I have been cheated on and dumped for the X also, it hurts........ Keep your chin up, go forward from here.........think of it this way, better you found out now, what if you had already popped the question? Just remember, when you need someone to talk to, your fellow SSS.com members have your back. were all here for you man, i know it sucks i've been hurt plenty in the past and it is'nt going to get better right away but it will.. Man that suck! Know it want make you feel any better but everything happens for a reason. it's better now then later, at least you now know her true colors.. 1 day you'll look back and realize that this was a good learning experiance and you'll end up with somone who realy appreciates and cares for you.. so chin up, go get wasted (but not so wasted you cant perform) and have some fun with an "easy chick".. or a "escort" ;) if you don't know of any easy chicks... might sound dumb, but when you get some new A$$ it kinda reminds you theres more out there, and helps finalize the end.. of course thats what worked for me but it should work for any guy. and remember it's just a matter of time until you find one you can trust. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2006_superado Posted July 15, 2007 Report Share Posted July 15, 2007 Congrats! I'm sure it's a great feeling. i bet it was for 4-years... over and over and over and over again.... lol congrats man they'll drive you crazy but it's what makes life worth living! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Schmids5.3l Posted July 15, 2007 Report Share Posted July 15, 2007 I agree, everything will fall in place, you'll stumble on someone sooner or later. After I got back from the sandbox and got the news you've gotten recently, I gave up for a while and just went to school and worked. Then I stumbled on my ex from high schools sister. We've been dating for a while now, and are moving in together this coming Friday. Everything came completely out of no were. Her sister left me for her ex too, they are still together today and live together in misery, and he kicks her ass every once in a while. She's hella jealous of her sister (my g/f) and pretty much has a shitty life. One thing, don't give her the time of day if she comes back around. If she wants to throw away 3 years because you went to Korea for 12 months, she's not the one you want to ask that question. I barely talk to my girl friends sister because of what she did 4 years ago, and when I do talk to her I call her and her Ford loving boy friend Ike and Tina Turner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smoke03 Posted July 15, 2007 Report Share Posted July 15, 2007 ...it'll all work out...and WE ALL got your back man! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brobradh77 Posted July 15, 2007 Report Share Posted July 15, 2007 (edited) Sorry to hear that it must be tough. Hey atleast you found out before you got engaged and now hopefully can return the ring and spend the money on your truck you dont need to hang on to the ring it will only bring back bad vibes when you see it. ..I also find that a problem with people in the military i read dozens of threads in other forums about this. They go off like in your case for a year or sometimes longer and their women get lonely and have neeeds to and they find them elsewhere. That sucks but thats just how it seems to be apparantly from what I have read. If it wasnt for guys like you defending this country we wouldn't have the freedoms we do but its a hard life and takes a toll on relationships and any children involved. Your not too far from a bunch of us and I hope you can make some of the GTG's we would love to see ya. Edited July 15, 2007 by brobradh77 (see edit history) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
[email protected] Posted July 15, 2007 Report Share Posted July 15, 2007 Sorry to hear that man, keep your head up it will get better with time..... -Lance Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xlr82sxs Posted July 15, 2007 Report Share Posted July 15, 2007 (edited) hey brother, don't let this get you down.. i dated a girl all through out high school and a few years afterwards. as soon as she went off to college she screwed around on me. when that happened to me, i moved 1000 miles away to get away from all the bullshit. moved to texas to work for my old man. the whole time i was in texas it was hard for me to stop thinking about her and i didn't date anyone. her and i continued to "talk" while i was away. it has now been 4 years and i just moved back to town where i left to get away. we hung out for a night after i moved back, which was only a few days ago and i haven't spoke to her since. anyways, this past weekend i went out and i've got three women to call and hang out with now.. it's definitely a hard thing to go through.. but, there is always more out there brother. this past weekend was the funnest time of my life and i'm glad i was single. keep your head up man! i sent you a pm. Edited July 15, 2007 by xlr82sxs (see edit history) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2006_superado Posted July 15, 2007 Report Share Posted July 15, 2007 i bet it was for 4-years... over and over and over and over again.... lol congrats man they'll drive you crazy but it's what makes life worth living! ^^^ i posted this in another topic?.. sorry for the mix-up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KJT13 Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 sorry about the news man!! like everyone else has already said, we got your back and are here for ya if you need to talk or vent. i'm sure most of us have gone thru something similar in one way or another and are more than willing to lend an ear or some advice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashleylorraine Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 Thanks guys. I know that SSS guys always have your back. I think that I'm going to get some drinks and go to bed. Don't forget the girls! I'm here for ya, too. I'm sorry to hear about that. What a little "you know what". Seems like she lost a good man. Her loss. Hopefully things will heal with time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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