This actaully works!!!! No more chimes for the doors. Now I just need to be careful not to lock my keys in the car . A long time ago, I learned to keep a spare car key in my wallet, so I won't worry about that too much.
Remove fuse panel cover
Loosen the instrument cluster bezel by pulling on the corners and then the middle parts. This made it easier for me to get the knee bolster out.
Remove the two screws that hold the knee bolster.
Pin and clip that hold the top of the knee bolster in place. Knee bolster comes out by pulling outward (directly towards you if you are sitting in the drivers seat).
Knee bolster removed. The colored wires in the center of the pic are the connectors to the BCM.
The connector on the right is the one you want. I had to pull the BCM down a bit to get the connector clear of the big chunk of metal under the steering column. Remove by putting small screw driver under gray plastic clip on the underside of the connector.
Once free from the BCM, remove the gray clip with small screw driver on the two places where it clips to the blue connector
Green wire in the lower left is the one we want. (took this pic after the wire had been removed)
Coming at it from this angle finally worked for me. Notice that I chewed up the blue plasctic a bit, it seems to be rather soft plastic.
Once remove, Put some electrical tape around the bare pin.
Reassemble in reverse order (I have always wanted to say that ). Be careful that the plastic pins are in their holes before you hammer the instrument cluster bezel back in place.