2006IntimidatorSS

^Has a nice 06 Silverado SS

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^gives good advice about girls...

The title says it all, but keep it appropriate for the site. I want to see how many of you will do this. It's fun

Yea if only I could do that. My problem is just getting a girl to talk to me. I mean I say hello, I be kind and nice to them. I bring up something appropriate to get a conversation going and they just blow me off like I don't matter. No girl seems to want anything to do with me.

Ha yea right...I hear you guys, I know being patient has its rewards. But there is just one other thing that bugs me,. Why do people look at me like I am a drugy and a user? I just had someone at a truck stop in Indiana come up to me and ask me for drugs and if I would go smoke weed with him. I told him I don't do that crap and he walked away and then 5 minutes later came back up to me and asked me again for drugs and weed. I looked at him like are you nuts or just stupid?

Yea I am very aware of that and that is why I tend to be more caughtous when approaching them and talking to them. I am sure that is why I keeping screwing up is because I don't know what to say without getting too personal.

Well I am thinking that is what it is, girls think I am creepy so they blow me off. And I don't have any buddies that I can hang out with when I am out driving and working on the road. Over the road truck driving is a solo job pretty much and hard to hang out with buddies when you're in states that you don't live in and areas where you don't know anybody.. so what do I do then when I see a nice girl at say a truck stop and let's say she works at the truck stop. If she happens to be working, how could I approach her without looking creepy and what do I say?

Okay, so what about asking her for going out to get a bite to eat? Is that too much to start with?

Yea I had a chance to hook up with a strange woman in Tennessee. She is one of those what you would call lot lizards. She come up to my truck just as I parked for the night and was shutting down for my 10 hour DOT break and asked me if I wanted company and then she popped out her boobs and said "I have Boobies" and man this woman did have some knockers on her wow. I told her no that I was good. She seemed nice but I wasn't going to hooked up with a lot lizards that might have a disease also rob you blind. I would say I am needy I guess. I see a nice girl and I just got to have her. I feel that way everytime I see a nice girl. I am stuck in Pennsylvania right now in Erie at a pilot travel centers truck stop. I am going to try to make the best of my day here. I am pretty much just going to work out in my truck and get out to go walk around and stretch. Like I said before I like to stay fit

Oh yea, I have not tried online dating because I didn't think those dating sites worked. I mean trying to find a girl that can relate to motorsports like I can is hard. I love riding a racing motocross, but then again sometimes finding a girl that doesn't know anything about it is nice because otherwise that might create a dispute or a small disagreement at somepoint about something.

Hahaha...that's funny. okay so I want to get a chance to talk to this girl I met a while ago and I may have already messed it up with her, but if there is a way to change that, it might be worth a shot. I am stuck in Pennsylvania right now and the girl I met a while ago is from Wisconsin just like me. I find that to be better because then at least I could see her when I am at home.

Okay so how do I approach a girl and how would I challenge her self confidence? Obviously I am not very smart in this area with girls. I have not been smart with girls and never have been smart with girls. It's been very difficult and hard to get a girl that will take time to chat with you and take time to get to know you and hang out with you. I have that problem.

Well sounds like you got it made dude.

Yea but I've been to bars and I'm not really a big fan of bars anymore. I just don't get into going out to bars. I have been in bars before, and some good and some bad. I just didn't get into the whole scene of being around everyone that was drunk.

Lol...some of these ideas you guys are giving me are funny. But man, I don't hang out at bars and I really don't drink or smoke. By the way if anyone has a facebook, feel free to go on and add me as a friend. Let me know though so I know who you are. Anyway, this girl that I met, how can I fix things to get her to I dunno...at least like me and want to talk to me? I know I screwed things up with her already, but maybe a good impression and a I'm sorry might help, though the words I'm sorry are not good enough anymore these days.

Oh and I don't arrange to meet girls anywhere. I just see them at stores, truck stops, and where ever. I sometimes try to go say hi

How do you challenge their self confidence? Oh and a few other things to know about me, I don't drink alcohol, I don't get into partying, I don't go to the bars to blow my money. I am for the most part saving my money and working really hard to save my money and pay off my student loans. I driving the same car I bought my senior year of high school because it was the car I wanted. I like it and I am still working on fixing it and customizing it my own way. I am a nice guy and like to be a good friend. I try really hard to get things I can't have right now, I try to earn them and work for them. I put all I can into doing things I like doing. But girls, that is just difficult.

If you guys want to see what I look like, go find me on facebook. Search for me by email address. [email protected] or just search Cody Austin. I am from Wisconsin and I love riding quads. My display pic or profile pic shows it all. You can find me and check out my pics. Right now being a truck driver, everyone seems to look at you like you're a pig. I am not fat, I am not over weight nor am I gaining any weight. I weigh right at around 140 pounds still. I wear jeans shorts and white t-shirts everyday because it keeps me cool on these hot days during the summer. I shower as often as I can, sometimes twice a day. I keep clean, I don't do stupid stuff. I got a good clean haircut that people have commented me on and said it makes me look more adult like, so I stick to this haircut and because this is the haircut I like. I wash my face everyday and night because of the acne, I tend to get it bad if I don't wash my face. I am 24 years of age and I am athletic, in good health, good shape, slim/slender figure and I workout as often as I can to build up my muscles and because I want to look and be stronger. I can run a mile in 6 minutes and i can pull my own weight when it comes to lifting weights and that stuff. I am smart at most things, not everything. I want to have a good figure. I see myself as an ugly guy. But I dunno what to think anymore

Come on guys, this is really starting to bother me. I met just a drop dead gorgeous girl and I said hello to her, she introduced herself and I did the same. She shook me hand, different from a girl, but anyway, I found her very attractive and after I met her, I just can't figure out what I may have did wrong. I tried some small talk with her and she answered and was very nice about it. After that she didn't seem to want anything to do with me. I know I screwed up with her and I would like to find her and have another chance to start over with her. I want to come off to a girl as a friend and not some guy who is a creep or a pig looking to get them into bed. Can someone help me here? If I can find this girl again, I just want to be able to find the right words to say.

Okay so here it is. I seem to have girl troubles. Everytime I see a nice girl that looks attractive, I sometimes think, it would be nice to try to be a friend. So sometimes I will try to go say hello and try some small talk with them just to get a conversation started. And they will answer with very few words and then just walk away. I am not sure what I am doing wrong here. I try to be a nice guy and I try not to look like a low life or a creep or a stalker. For some reason girls just seem to get some sort of bad vibe from me and they blow me off and never want to talk to me again. Can anyone help me out here.? Everytime I see a nice girl, I want to go talk to her, and I end up drowning in myself and I dunno what to say and don't know what to do. Can anyone help me out here please? I see so many nice girls out there and sometimes it would be nice to be able to go talk to some of them and not have them run away or be afraid of me or whatever it is about me that drives them away. Yea go ahead and laugh it it, this may sound stupid, but I want to figure out what I am doing wrong.