04silveradoclone07ss Posted November 27, 2007 Report Share Posted November 27, 2007 ok well first off im a lover not a fighter. but when it comes down to fight'n me "i rather be judged by 12 then carried by 6" i wont stop until someone pulls me off. and im a big guy!!! 5'9 and like 315lbs. and fights to win...not tryn to talk big but thats just what happens(bad portuguese temper) well this girl that is a family freinds daughter started to show interest in me...wel things hit off good and started hanging out like alot.. well she just broke up with her bf 4 2 months on the 16th. i know its quick but we talked about it and made sure i wasnt the rebound and w.e happened we would still be freinds. but now she still has/had feeling and we kinda took a break...ya a break on a week relationship lol. well now she hates him and he messaged me on myspace to im him and talk...well im not one to start fights and i know if i im him it will led to one. so what im askin is should i. get into a beef with this kid fight and be done with? think it will stop after a fight...this is so damn kiddish its not even funny. also im 18, shes 17 and he is 23!!!!! ill add stuff later but that what i have for right now... and also as many know what happened to my father i dont like to take shit from NOONE!!! im only telling u guys this cuz this is like my family and ur all my brothers!!1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BILLS04SS Posted November 27, 2007 Report Share Posted November 27, 2007 Kyle, If i were you I'd take the high road and not try and pick a fight. You'll look better in the end and probably get the girl anyway. Just my 02 cents worth. I'm also speaking from personal experience . Good luck and keep us posted B Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smoke03 Posted November 27, 2007 Report Share Posted November 27, 2007 You have one of 2 choices: 1.) you could IM him and try and talk it out and try and be the calm and mature adult in the situation. Alot of times just talking to somebody can resolve the problem 2.) ignore it. Then, God forbid, if your truck gets keyed or messed with, then that to me would be grounds for an @$$ whippin'. There is also a third option: 3.) Beat his @$$ and be done with it. Just make sure he dont want no more when your done. IMO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FireRescueSS Posted November 27, 2007 Report Share Posted November 27, 2007 Yup yup, take the high road. Besides, it's easier to be judged by 12 when it's self defense.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hugobossvp Posted November 27, 2007 Report Share Posted November 27, 2007 Kyle, If i were you I'd take the high road and not try and pick a fight. You'll look better in the end and probably get the girl anyway. Just my 02 cents worth. I'm also speaking from personal experience . Good luck and keep us posted B Kyle, Couldnt have said it better. Im gonna go ahead and say that this kid is probably a moron if hes 23 and picking fights with kids 5 years younger than he is. (Not that you couldnt spank his ass) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gixxerrider Posted November 27, 2007 Report Share Posted November 27, 2007 Kyle, If i were you I'd take the high road and not try and pick a fight. You'll look better in the end and probably get the girl anyway. Just my 02 cents worth. I'm also speaking from personal experience . Good luck and keep us posted B It is not worth all the head aches Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CenWaSS Posted November 28, 2007 Report Share Posted November 28, 2007 Just ignore him and all his messages. If he ever actually confronts you face to face...let him have it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
04silveradoclone07ss Posted November 28, 2007 Author Report Share Posted November 28, 2007 well it only took a little bit but its preety much done for now... she had a night class and told me him and her were going to talk...so of course i was pissed..and nervous.. her freinds told me he was crazy..well i told her if she gets nervous or if shes uncomfortable to call me and ill be there in mins..(to kick ass) well im at the karate school and get a call from her saying softly "can u pick me up" so ofcourse i jump in the truck and rush there not knowing what to expect..i called her again and talked for a sec....well come to find out they talked and she preety much said f'u im done get over it. and she just wanted me to pick her up..he told her that he didnt want to fight me just talk to me(ya right) but when i called her back he heard my voice and he new i wasnt F'n around and he told her "ummm......maybe i shouldnt meet him" and he took off...lol well thanks for the advice guys...for right now it good guy-1...douch bag-0 lol...thanks for the comments..but ill always watch my back, and if my truck gets keyed there going to be a bail kyle outa jail fund..thanks guys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smoke03 Posted November 28, 2007 Report Share Posted November 28, 2007 ill pitch in to that fund.....dont F* with our trucks lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brobradh77 Posted November 28, 2007 Report Share Posted November 28, 2007 Dont go looking for trouble. It if it finds you by all means stomp a mud hole and walk it dry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fireman31 Posted November 28, 2007 Report Share Posted November 28, 2007 Dont go looking for trouble. It if it finds you by all means stomp a mud hole and walk it dry. couldn't have said it better myself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
montanass Posted November 28, 2007 Report Share Posted November 28, 2007 Like everyone else said: keep it cool, and be the bigger man. Leave the fights at the bar and highschool. You'll find that dukin it out will just make it worse. In my opinion one should only fight in self defense or in defense of a weaker person. But i guess everyone has their breaking point, however I never really found mine, but i'm sure i will someday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wody Posted November 28, 2007 Report Share Posted November 28, 2007 you have already proved that you are the better person, otherwise she wouldn't be with you. no more proving is needed. the other dude should just bow down. drop it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KJT13 Posted November 28, 2007 Report Share Posted November 28, 2007 Kyle, glad to hear everything is cool for now. I know I'm late, but choosing to be the bigger guy is the best choice. Going in full of piss and vinegar could back fire and chase the girl off. the fact that this bozo is acting this way at his age and you're acting your way at your's is a sure sign that she likes your maturity. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterp Posted November 28, 2007 Report Share Posted November 28, 2007 (edited) Lots to say but will try to keep it brief, this is going to be another brain dump - First, NO WOMAN is worth getting into a fight or going to jail over. Man Rule. Second, that girl is troubled; the way she lives her life is bringing you nothing but drama. She is simultaneously jerking both your chain as well as that of this other guy. This is the kind of woman that trouble just seems to follow like the wake after the Titanic. A little Dog Whisperer take on this - notice how SHE comes to YOU? Notice how HE comes to YOU? And Cesar says the leader (dominant one) never walks over to the follower(s), it is the other way around - the submissive ones gravitate to the leader. Think about it. In this little dysfunctional love triangle YOU have been already been "elected" the dominant one by default, SO ACT IT. This is my suggestion - do not ask but rather TELL that bitch you expect her to make a clean/clear-cut decision as to what she is going to do with her life, as Mr. Miagi say "grape can walk on left side, or walk on right side, but walk down middle and *squish*"; and coming is the most important point here, that being you cannot tell another human being what to do only what you expect and this is another really good life rule - manage others by making your expectations clear and explicit, then let them make their decisions. Always. Look K., she's subconciously got you two guys running in circles doing stuff you normally would never dream of doing, both you guys are acting under the influence of **** - she needs to decide what to do with her life. She also needs to learn how to deal with the man problems in her life. She is not alone, you will find that most women have NO idea how to treat a man, in fact most women have NO idea how to treat other women! So you gotta be on the lookout for people that are f'd up like that. If I were me in your shoes this situation is already too far gone to make a relationship with this woman. Because she's proven she's weak-minded and you will always subconciously wonder if she is being up-front with you or whether you're being jerked around with. I have nothing against women that need "rescuing" but man this is not how she's acting, I don't care what she is telling you - take a look at her behavior, she doesn't need rescuing, she needs some f'n manners. OH - and about the other guy, leave him alone. If he's dumb enough to be left twisting in the wind at her mercy then so be it, let him. You run YOUR life, let him run his. You run your relationship with her, let the two of them work out their own problems. Your relationship with her is your business, the relationship between the two of them is none of your business so butt-out and let them handle it. Just make your expectations clear. And if that other "gentleman" DOES butt into your business (i.e. your relationship with her) then be the alpha male and YOU take the problem to HIM and make your expectations clear, whatever you decide them to be; the key here is never to start shit, your job is to handle your business whatever it may be. Mr. P. Edited November 28, 2007 by Mr. P. (see edit history) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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