Thatdavidkid Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 I tried a few dating sites and dated a few different girls that I met through friends, work, etc. but when it was all said and done, I ended up dating a girl that I met when it was 9..... My point is, do you and when you least expect it, things will fall into place. It's been about 5 years since my last date with a stranger, and I now have a beautiful wife, new home, and a great 3 month old baby here at home. Things will work out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JC03SS Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 Found my fiancé on a dating site also. And I hit the jackpot what a awesome woman. It can be done. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kcsilveradoss Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 Have not read through all of this but by reading your posts you sound like you are young, definitely lack confidence, and try too hard. Women (the ones you seem to be trying for) like a$$holes who are full of themselves. If you aren't comfortable being that type of person, you need to re-evaluate your preferences. Seek the quiet nerdy hot chick, they are the crazy in the sack ones anyway, and can actually hold an intelligent conversation Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ammomike Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 Ok bud, here is my 2 cents. I see that you are out serchingfor a girl, in my opinion and experience, its when you stop looking and get to be happy with yourself that a girll will come to you. I too am a nice guy, and had more than one chick bail on me because of it. Be patient, one will come to you. BUT, if youre not happy with yourself, you wont be happy with another. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jsm110 Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 Ok bud, here is my 2 cents. I see that you are out serchingfor a girl, in my opinion and experience, its when you stop looking and get to be happy with yourself that a girll will come to you. I too am a nice guy, and had more than one chick bail on me because of it. Be patient, one will come to you. BUT, if youre not happy with yourself, you wont be happy with another. This^ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bad Bowtie Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 >>>> What he said above. <<<< Also, just for fun/practice/breaking the ice/wall around you. Lower your standard "dream girl" a notch or two. Pick a couple of girls in this "lower" catagory & go out with them. It could be boring, it could be fun, it could be REAL fun- But either way, consider it practice. Building up to your "ideal girl". Plus, then other girls will see you out on the town with a different girl, kind-of advertising yourself. Can't hurt. And it might even surprise you.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T-Bag Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 (edited) Not sure what to tell you but my buddies were on match.com for a few years and got laid by different chicks twice 3times a week! I think the best advice is be your self don't put yourself down! Good luck and also don't post this Ina website like this unless you can take the negativity that's coming! hahaha, no comment Edited May 31, 2013 by Bad Ass Silvy (see edit history) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatTallCanadian Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 No need for a long ass post it's very simple.1. You're trying too hard. 2. Be yourself. 3. Stop caring.That's all you need to do and a relationship will find its way to you if its meant to be. Don't FORCE anything. I was single for a long time, finally found an amazing girl my own age, everything is perfect. She was in a 4 year relationship when I met her as well. Nothing is impossible. Just let it happen, stop caring so much about being in a relationship, it'll happen when it happens. You won't be happy in a relationship if you can't be happy by yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2006IntimidatorSS Posted May 31, 2013 Author Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 I am 25 if anyone is wondering. I am still driving semi truck over the road in the flatbed hauling. I just seem to have that crave to find a girl. I don't know why but its very hard feeling. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KrausMotorSports Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 (edited) No need for a long ass post it's very simple. 1. You're trying too hard. 2. Be yourself. 3. Stop caring. That's all you need to do and a relationship will find its way to you if its meant to be. Don't FORCE anything. I was single for a long time, finally found an amazing girl my own age, everything is perfect. She was in a 4 year relationship when I met her as well. Nothing is impossible. Just let it happen, stop caring so much about being in a relationship, it'll happen when it happens. You won't be happy in a relationship if you can't be happy by yourself. Hahaha Maybe he should bat for the other side? He may have better luck. Seems there everywhere nowadays. HAHAHAHAHA these topics crack me up! Edit scratch that! Where you from. Is it in the hicks? If so may be time to move. Although I have seen girlfriends topics on other sites and some girls in hick towns have been hit with the ugly stick! At least go to warmer states so there gautanteed to have a nice tan! Edited May 31, 2013 by KrausMotorSports (see edit history) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blazerdave2000 Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 Hahaha Maybe he should bat for the other side? He may have better luck. Seems there everywhere nowadays. HAHAHAHAHA these topics crack me up! Holy beat ur self up batman was the best lol. Take all this advice everyone has given you here today and sleep on it... It will work out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chawkins6789 Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 (edited) Look I go in blind and open, I will get a catch, but they have some flaw. Some were too southern, some too stuck up, one was both and drove a Ford truck... take the good with the bad and take the time to go slow and find what YOU want in a girl Edited June 2, 2013 by chawkins6789 (see edit history) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2006IntimidatorSS Posted June 2, 2013 Author Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 Yeah I get it. I just talked to my dad today and he told me to just go and enjoy life and to do all the things I want to do. He told me I have the freedom to do what I want so enjoy it because once I get involved with a girl in a relationship, he told me that I am going to lose all the goals and dreams I wanted to do because those all will get taken away from ya. So I hear you all and I highly appreciate the advice. I am going to just live my single and keep pursuing my goals and dreams that I have set for myself. I would really hate to have those all taken away from me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evandostert Posted June 9, 2013 Report Share Posted June 9, 2013 You gotta move. Your in the sticks. City guys get laid 1000x more often. More woman to work with. Try Chicago lotsa hot chicks everywhere. Try some flavor. White girls are a pain. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chawkins6789 Posted June 9, 2013 Report Share Posted June 9, 2013 Damn Straight Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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